We come from various clans, tribes and races and this, by its very nature, suggests we are brought up in ways which differ from the rest. With that said, there have been many issues which I think have been mishandled and ultimately disrespected not only the people involved but the majority of the people whose cultures and traditions are being disrespected.
The one example of these is the infamous Spear painting by that guy. This man failed to acknowledge that President Zuma, as much as we don't approve of his ways, is still an elder and a respectable individual among his people. It is disrespectful of people to paint him in the manner that guy did. That has passed but not forgotten. The cultures and traditions of Zuma's and my people feel stripped naked of all our dignity in the face of other peoples of our country. We feel our elders have been insulted. We fight for them.
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| Madiba with Prof Jakes Gerwel, friend and confidant. |
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| Madiba and OR Tambo sing the National Anthem. |
Now, the other, more disturbing of these disrespectful events is the recent alleged reports that some among us South Africans, are saying that the medical doctors treating uBaw'uMadiba in Tshwane should facilitate the man's death by switching of all machines critical to his possible recovery. These people are uncultured and disrespectful. We all know that Madiba is a world hero and that the world loves him. But we also know that Madiba is a Xhosa man and Inkosi.
There is no reason for people to dictate, even if by mere opinion, what the Mandela family must do. Madiba still belongs to the Mandela family of the AbaThembu clan. These are people of stature and tradition and therefore such must be observed when dealing with them. I am not rambling here because I think people should not have concerns about the well-being of this statesman but I am merely pointing out that the English have their ways of dealing with things like these. The Afrikaner also has his ways, the Chinese and all other peoples of this land of ours.
Now allow the Madiba's to proceed with their business as dictated to them by the knowledge of their forefathers. Impose not what the Westerner "would do". Send your messages of support. Visit the hospitals if you have the means. Stay away from suggesting decisions that should be taken there.
Respect the will of his family.








